Bolton Street Synagogue strives to enable the preparation for and celebration of each Bar and Bat Mitzvah to be a meaningful and fulfilling experience.

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To attain Bar/Bat Mitzvah, Bolton Street Synagogue

• Requires participation in Bolton Street Religious School or an independent religious day school
• Requires membership in synagogue
• Requires completion of Mitzvah Project

The Bar/Bat Mitzvah may be viewed as a new beginning in the life of an emerging adult, as well as in the life of his or her family.

• B'nai Mitzvah may be viewed as a change in status in accord with Jewish sacred heritage.
• Bar/Bat Mitzvah affirms the decision to formally enter the Jewish community and, according to our tradition, is a time of choosing one's group identity.
• Bar/Bat Mitzvah functions as a springboard to further strengthen the Jewish experience of the family and the student, and reinforce their engagement with the community. Such a view mandates that the actual celebration day becomes an event in a continuum of Jewish education and participation.

This continuum should be designed to build new peer relationships, to encourage community service, to encourage Torah study, to shape a philosophy of Judaism, and to strengthen the ties of family members to each other and the family's commitment to the Jewish community.

A period of preparation for "coming of age" is an ancient tradition among the Jewish people. For the sake of continuity with Jewish heritage, we categorize the Bolton Street guidelines according to three goals–

• Awareness of Jewish spirituality
• Mastery of Jewish rituals, skills and community leadership
• Community outreach for the purpose of Tikkun Olam (care of the world).

Mitzvah Projects

An important part of the Bar or Bat Mitzvah process is the Mitzvah project. This will be also discussed in the Zayin class and in meetings with the Rabbi. Each student will pick a project that emphasizes the values that are important to him/her and then carry out the project. In the past, our students have done a variety of things. Listed below are just a few of them:

• Collected supplies for the animals at the SPCA
• Tutored in an elementary school
• Assisted in an afterschool program for young children
• Collected books for a school library in need of books
• Volunteered in a nursing home with the elderly
• Raised awareness of the genocide in Darfur

Highlights of the Bolton Street Bar/Bat-Mitzvah celebration

• Services led by Rabbi Jonathan Panitz and Cantor Alan Rubinstein with option to bring in additional clergy to co-officiate service
• Private tutoring for Torah study arranged with help of Rabbi
• Regular family meetings with Rabbi in preparation of service
• Shabbat mornings, Havdalah, mincha and selected Jewish holiday B'nai Mitzvah dates offered
• Individual B'nai Mitzvahs—no double book-up
• Service tailored to the individual B'nai Mitzvah and their family